KELLI YOUNGLOVE

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But let’s go back a bit.  Back to the time I thought I had it all—a husband I adored, a wide circle of friends, a great job. 

 

My inner state of mind must have been pretty good, right?

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Not exactly. 

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I had done a lot of work on myself—true.  I was allowing abundance in—yes.  But I had only scratched the surface.  I hadn’t drilled down to the real issues. 

 

I wasn’t aware of the thoughts I was thinking on a daily basis, the false beliefs that were causing chronic guilt and unhappiness.

 

• “I need to be perfect for people to love me”

• “I can’t say no, or I’ll be rejected”

• “I can’t be honest, or I’ll hurt the ones I care about”

• “I have to put the needs of others before my own”

• “I have to be nice.  It’s my job to keep the peace”

 

These thoughts drove me to a point of exhaustion.  I had a big, beautiful life, but I also had a severe case of anxiety that was wringing the joy from it.

 

I could barely breathe. 

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I didn’t realize the anxiety was my inner wisdom, trying to get my attention.  

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I just wanted it to go away. 

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So I stuffed it down.  And covered it up.  And medicated myself.

 

The truth was, I was too afraid to hear what my heart was saying.

  

• “You need to end a thirty-year friendship”

• “You aren’t ready to have a child”

• “You need to question your childhood religion”

• “You’re tired of being bound by social obligation”

• “You have a deeper purpose” 

 

Deep down, I truly wanted the freedom to be myself.  I wanted to make my own rules and live by my own values—not the ones chosen for me by others. 

 

But I was terrified to give up the life that I had, in order to have the life that I longed for. 

 

So I stayed on the surface.  And let things get worse.

 

In the end, I had to lose almost everything before I was willing to take responsibility for what was showing up in my life.  I had to be cracked open before I would listen to the guidance system that had been there all along—an internal voice that was directing me to a life I could have never imagined. 

 

It took me a long time to own up to the truth that I'm a powerful woman who (surprise! surprise!) craves a contemplative life.

 

It was hard to admit that as much as I love people, I'm also an introvert and need time by myself.   

 

And yet I had to.  Because my deep purpose in life wouldn’t stop calling.

 

I began to question all my foundational beliefs and took a roller coaster ride of self-discovery that changed me forever. 

 

Along the way I met several great teachers—one of whom was Dr. Martha Beck.  After training with this amazing woman, I started my own coaching practice where I now use my gifts of strength, intuition, and empathy to help people just like you face all that they need to face with courage and self-love.

 

This is the work I was born to do.

 

If you're ready, I can help you free yourself from a life that no longer serves you.

 

But please know that you don’t have to do it all at once.  You don’t have to make a huge leap.

 

All you have to do is take the first step.

 

So, if you’re curious, click here and we’ll get started.

 

Your solutions and answers are waiting for you.