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Bringing Smelly Carcass Home

Kelli Younglove

Dec 2, 2018

Bringing Smelly Carcass Home

When I was a kid, I used to get teased. A LOT. I walked down back alleyways, trying to avoid the town kids who made fun of me. Looking back, it’s easy to see why they did. I went to school at a Bible Institute. I wore homemade clothes. And ugly glasses. My mom cut my hair. How could they resist? One of the boys named me Smelly Carcass and it stuck. Smelly Carcass! Smelly Carcass! Smelly Carcass! When they laughed at my lunchbox, I tried to break it so my mother would give me

Hit It With Everything You've Got

Kelli Younglove

Feb 2, 2018

Hit It With Everything You've Got

Friends and clients often ask me, "What’s the best technique or tool to use when you’re hit with self-loathing and shame?” And while I do have some powerful favourites, sometimes the shame spiral is so strong, you can't even access the will to get out of it. That’s when you’ve got to bring out the heavy artillery. Not just one tool, but EVERYTHING you’ve got in the arsenal. Here’s an interesting example: My sister suffers from migraines—the real kind that swells up from her

"It's Right Here!"

Kelli Younglove

Jan 1, 2018

"It's Right Here!"

I hang out with amazing women. This isn’t an accident or merely “good luck”. I have a criterion for my closest girlfriends. They need to love beauty and be creating it consciously in some aspect of their lives. They need to be doing their own inner work. They need to be a willing partner in our relationship, (which often means calling me on my bullshit and helping me grow into a better human). They need to love laughter as much as oxygen. My friend Jacky can check off all the